Dating text message rules
Being heartbroken will actually help, because being so emotionally involved with an ex means you won't pay much attention to the new man - and are a challenge without even trying. Every woman we know who moved on quickly realised with hindsight that the man she had been pining for was wrong for her.
Adapted by Catherine O'Brien from The New Rules: The Dating Dos And Don'ts For The Digital Generation by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, published by Little, Brown on January 8 £12.99.
If a man is calling you after midnight, he's looking for sex, not a date, and may well have sent the same text to ten other girls at the same time. Text, phone and Skype conversations should be a maximum of 15 minutes - and you should always be the one to end it. Wait 24 to 48 hours to confirm a friend request from him and NEVER write on his wall or 'like' his status updates.
A Rules Girl likes herself too much to be so undervalued. That basically broadcasts the fact that you're into him to everyone. One of the biggest mistakes women make is to constantly post status updates or tweet.
He can cause you public humiliation in addition to private anguish. The best way to cope is to start dating again immediately.
But NEVER write angry texts, emails, posts or tweets in retaliation. We mean tonight or tomorrow - not a month from now.
Everyone says communication is the key to building and maintaining positive relationships.
It's the equivalent of looking at you at a party or in a bar, but not approaching, and if a man can't even send an email to introduce himself, then he probably won't ask you out either.
You want to go from online contact to meeting them quickly - within four exchanges, to be exact.
To do this, we called upon our good friend Mollie, from Mollie In Seattle to help us understand the rules (there’s 10 of them) for text messaging while dating. What about a winky face or is a smiley face better?
Should I add the exclamation point at the end or just use a period?